Yah lah it's you lah aniki, if you are reading this, so hoping that you're not...hehehe..all because of some lame reasons...*hates being ignored*
and a friend (male also) that I had a cold war since the weekend before trials due to a petty fight caused by my lamearse bro (kidding still love him...although he needs some smacking sometimes) on Facebook. It was quite a dramatic week filled with blocking on FB, sarcasm, cold war, not sitting together at our usual table etc that sort of things.
hmmm...I guess what my point is that maybe perhaps and quite possibly that I, myself have been a little (okay very) sensitive over some small matters, I mean, if I could have just "ren", tolerate and not react so much that all this drama wouldn't have happened.
Ps: I would really like to thank our Father in Heaven, seriously He had something to do with this, it all started with that app that really hit the nail on the head and brought an end to all this. The App is called message from God (hmmm hahaha), heres what it wrote:
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.. that although forgiveness is very hard, it is necessary. Holding onto anger and old hurts hardens your heart and hurts only you. Ask for help in letting go of the anger. Ask to see the situation through the eyes of compassion. Allow yourself to feel the lightness of forgiveness.
I realised that I'd rather and had to put down my pride and my ego to just stop and think for a while what is really important, my reputation? My pride? or my relationship between peeps and those good times when we just spend time talking nonsense and doing lame things.
Conclusion, I'm realy glad that relationships were restored and a lesson has been taught to me that I really should try and think more before reacting sometimes...aihs...paisehs, It might be because I'm a more dominant sanguine compared to phlegmatic, but I do try ....=)